I was reading old blogs last night and remembering all the cute things Timothy did. I realized if I had not blogged about them, I would have forgotten. That made me wonder if I am writing enough of Teresa's cute things. So here is what Teresa is up to...
My mom always tells how my brother Dan followed my oldest brother, Jeff, around saying "Jeff, Jeff, Jeff!" When I see Teresa follow Timothy around, I wonder if that is how my brothers looked. Teresa loves to copy him. Even when he is at swimming lessons, Teresa watches through the window and tries to do the arm movements he does. Recently when we were playing outside, all Teresa did was go where Timothy did...in the puddle, on the sidewalk, over the snow--it was like follow the leader. She loves to try to jump on the bed like him, or go bump down the stairs like him. She completely loves her brother and wants to be with him. She has been known to cry if Timothy goes someplace without her. And for the most part I think the feeling is mutual. Timothy loves her too. (He only shouts "you're hurting my ears" at her when she cries!)
It is true that even apart from Timothy, Teresa enjoys copying right now. Animal Baby magazine is her favorite and she loves to copy the actions for the action rhymes and the sounds from the animal noises page. She will dance with you , raise her arms up, give hi-fives. They only thing Teresa does not like to copy is words. No matter how much I encourage her, she calls everything "dog" or some variation of that. (We are soon to start checking out whether fluid in her ears might be affecting her speech.) I take comfort in the fact that Timothy was about 20 1/2 months before he said "Mom-mom." I hope Teresa learns that soon! :-)
Connected to her desire to copy Timothy is a growing desire to be independent. Teresa sees what he does and things she can too. This means she wants to walk to the car, and not be carried. She wants to try walking down the stairs. She wants to stand on chairs to look out the window. And even at church she is no longer content to miss out on the kid's time up front (children's sermon.). If Timothy gets to go, then she needs to go to. (If only she could copy how he sits still!) She is moving out of the nice baby stage when she would happily be carted along and do what mommy wants! That makes life challenging, but beautiful too.